Civ 6 on Hamachi

Hi, me and my friend are trying to use Hamachi to set up a LAN conection so we can join via LAN on civ 6. We have both connected to each other and it is green for both of us. we have run the diagnostic tool and everything is ok. We are both able to ping each other and we have dissabled all firewalls, and the problem comes when we try to connect on LAN. Nothing appears on his screen when he tries to join me and nothing appears for me when i try to join him. It works fine when he brings his computer to mine and when i bring mine to his, so it cant be because of the game. just wondering if anyone knows whats going on, thanks!